Resolutions
January 1st, 2010
2010 has a good ring. You can say “twenty ten” naturally, and don’t have to say the whole “two thousand nine.” At a table for ten friends last night, talk turned to resolutions. Two vowed to be kinder. One to be more tolerant. Only one said “lose weight,” which is a perennial for me and simply goes without saying now! Ed resolved to protect his solitude for writing from the vicissitudes of our house. We both want to read Dante’s Inferno in Italian. (This now that I’ve finally finished Proust—for years a seductive soporific on summer afternoons.) Workouts, genealogy and remodeling a kitchen were mentioned. And everyone wants to travel.
My main resolution is to work on creating more enchantment in the garden. I am reading The Secret Garden to my grandson and remembering vividly the childhood world of the garden, surely as close to Eden as we get. I want more bolting poppy beds, more roses tangling in trees, more patches of lilies of the valley, more big-faced hydrangeas, more wildflower swaths.
We’re lucky to have Panciuto as our neighborhood restaurant in Hillsborough, NC. http://www.panciuto.com/chef.html
Chef Aaron Vandermark cooks Italian food with the local North Carolina produce and cheeses. The highlights of his end of the year celebration were the chestnut soup and the five games of tombola we played. The small restaurant was packed with local people. Ed and I walked out into the chilly new year, recalling the Italian cenone, the long, lavish feasts we’ve had on this night in Tuscany. Cena, dinner, is enlarged by the amplifying suffix -one. (Not to be confused with cenacolo, the last supper.) Cenone–that is one big dinner! And here, surrounded by wonderful friends, it was the same ambiance.
The Roman custom of throwing out junk into the street on New Year’s Eve has waned. It used to be dangerous to walk along the sidewalks—a broken chair or unhinged suitcase might halt your plans for the evening. But the impulse is strong at the end of the year to clear out, reorganize, start a new project. I get the urge to rearrange furniture. Today we’ve dragged a chest downstairs and all of a sudden the dining room looks finished. I borrowed a desk from my daughter and now have more work space in my study. I immediately hauled upstairs an armful of gardening books and for the coming winter days, I’ll be sketching and musing.
For reading and dreaming of gardens, I recommend Montrose: Life in a Garden (Duke University Press) by Nancy Goodwin. Montrose is a heavenly garden in Hillsborough, NC and can be visited by appointment. I’ve visited all the great gardens in England, Wales, and Scotland. Montrose is the most imaginative. After visiting for the first time, I had fantastical dreams for a week. The book fascinates not only because of its immense lore of knowledge and by its charming illustrations, but because of the austere and powerful prose style of Nancy Goodwin. If at all interested in gardens, you must be transformed by this book.







Frances,
I wonder if you could send me your e-mail address. We seem to have lost touch–I hope not something I have done. Marlane Ariesti, who you may remember from your Harcourt days (she was one of the English editors) has written to me about a book she is writing and wants to seek a bit of advice from you (I think she already has a publisher).
In any event, it appears you are flourishing. Good.
Gary
Frances,
I wonder if you would be willing to send me your e-mail address? I am just a little surprised to be asking–I hope we haven’t lost contact over something I did or didn’t do? In any event, Marlane Agriesti, whom you may remember (she was one of the English editors at Harcourt), wrote to me recently asking if I could put her in touch with you. I think she has a book about Tuscany and food and I think she has a publisher, but wants a bit of advice from you.
You appear to be flourishing. Good.
Gary
Hi Frances,
Per your recommendation above, I purchased Nancy Goodwin’s book a couple of weeks ago, read it, and went up today to visit Montrose. It was enchanting. My partner and I drove up from Wilmington, NC, and because of the cold weather, all the other registrants for the tour canceled. So we had a lovely walk through the gardens of Montrose with Nancy Goodwin all to ourselves. (Then we had lunch at Saratoga Grill in Hillsborough…AMAZING New England Clam Chowder!!!) As a landscape designer, I was in heaven, of course. I told Nancy that I found out about Montrose through your blog…she said she was having dinner with you all this weekend. Enjoy your evening together, and thank you for the recommendation. And please tell Nancy thanks so much, again, from Jeff and Steve. We loved our time with her.
All the best,
Jeff Minnich
Steve Grimsley
So glad you went–it is absolutely a magic kingdom. Come back at blooming season and see those roses arching into the trees. Nancy inspires me!